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“Do’s and Don’ts of Divorce” with Attorney Melissa Needle (Episode 10)
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      Firm Name: Needle | Cuda: DIvorse and Family Law
      Duration: 38:41
      Date: 2023-08-16

      Do's and Don't(s) of Connecticut Divorce

      Attorney Melissa Needle, Managing Partner of Needle | Cuda: Divorce and Family Law shares practical tips from her 30+ years of experience representing divorce clients in lower Fairfield County, CT. Learn how to be smart of of the gate and to avoid all those behaviors that can come back to haunt you in family court as your divorce unfolds. These Do's and Don't(s) will keep you out of trouble and "on the right track."    

      TIPS: The DO's of Connecticut DivorceThe Do's and Don't(s) of Connecticut Divorce

      1. Be honest with your lawyer!;
      2. Tell your attorney the whole story and be completely transparent;
      3. It is okay to acknowledge past bad behaviors as it comes across as being "honest";
      4. Make/keep copies of all your personal financial records, statements and files (going back 5 years) if possible;
      5. Change your passwords and protect your phone, personal computer, iPad, etc. - Do not discount the idea that spy software could have been installed on your computer by your spouse that tracks your key strokes -- Be very careful!
      6. Be weary of location/movement tracking and iTags;
      7. Be weary of your browser history ... delete your history and cookies;
      8. (When child custody is at issue) Keep a detailed journal to document the contemporaneous activity in your household as it unfolds, especially as it relates to your kids;
      9. Be weary of the fact that your spouse could be recording your verbal communications;
      10. Be patient, divorce can be a slow, frustrating process . It just takes time to get to the finish line.

      TIPS: The Don't(s) of Connecticut Divorce:

      1. Do not involve the children in the divorce proceeding by playing the blame game or bad-mouthing your spouse -- as it will reflect poorly on you and how your ability to parent is perceived;
      2. Do not leave divorce related paperwork where your kids can find it;
      3. Do not argue or engage with your spouse in front of the kids -- try not let emotion get the best of you! - Do not leave your personal journal where your spouse can access it;
      4. Do not use emotional language in electronic communication....instead be matter of fact and transactional.

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