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Child Custody Lawyers in Westport, CT

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Child custody is generally one of the hardest family law issues to resolve. Your natural instinct as a parent is to protect your child, and you are not open to compromise on that issue. But unless yours is an extreme case, where the other parent is a threat to your child, some level of compromise is inevitable because it is in your child’s best interest. At Needle | Cuda, in Westport, we guide parents through the process of developing a parenting plan that protects their rights and advances their child’s best interests. Through negotiations and mediation, we work to achieve your goals for your child’s future. However, when a negotiated solution is not possible or advisable, we are prepared to fight aggressively to deliver the results you need.

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Westport Child Custody AttorneysMost child custody actions come as part of divorce proceedings. But as more couples choose not to marry and more children are born out of wedlock, more stand-alone child custody actions have been filed. A parent can initiate a child custody action by filing a Custody/Visitation Application (JD-FM-161) with the Superior Court Clerk.

Under Connecticut law, there are two separate types of child custody, which a court can award to one parent (sole) or be shared by both parents (joint):

  • Legal custody — The legal authority to make important decisions affecting the child’s health and welfare
  • Physical custody — Rights and responsibilities related to providing a residence for the child and tending to the child’s physical need for shelter, clothing, food, and so on

Parents can negotiate a parenting responsibility plan, which they present to the court for approval. To be accepted by the court, the plan must include the following provisions:

  • A schedule detailing where the child will live during the year
  • Instructions allocating decision-making authority (legal custody) to either parent or both parents for the child’s health, education, and religious upbringing
  • A mechanism for resolving future disputes in the exercise of legal custody if that custody is to be shared
  • A mechanism for dealing with either parent’s failure to honor responsibilities under the plan
  • A mechanism for adapting to the child’s needs as they change over time

Parents must pledge to minimize the child’s exposure to harmful parental conflict, meet their responsibilities through agreement whenever possible, and protect their child’s best interests.

In most cases, a parenting agreement is the best way to settle your custody issues. When you reach an agreement through negotiation or mediation, you have greater control over the result than if you had left the decision to a judge. Even if you don’t get everything you want, a compromise that you are both committed to is often better than a one-sided victory that alienates the loser. Your agreement is more likely to work because you are more likely to get cooperation from the other parent than you would if the judge had ruled in your favor, leaving your ex with a bitter defeat.

However, there are cases where compromise is impossible and might even endanger your children. If parents do not come together on a parenting plan, the issue must go to trial before a judge.

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When deciding child custody issues, the guiding principle for the court is the best interests of the child. Parental rights take a back seat, as the court examines the facts in light of numerous statutory factors, which include:

  • The child’s temperament and developmental needs
  • The parents’ capacity and the disposition to understand and meet the child’s needs
  • Any relevant information the child supplies, including his or her informed preferences
  • The parents’ wishes as to custody
  • The child’s relationships with each parent, siblings and any other significant person
  • Each parent’s willingness to facilitate a continuing relationship between the child and the other parent
  • A parent’s manipulation or coercive behavior drawing the child into the parents’ dispute
  • Each parent’s ability to be actively involved in the child’s life
  • The child’s adjustment to his or her home, school and community
  • The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the importance of continuity
  • The stability of the child’s existing or proposed residences
  • All parties’ mental and physical health
  • The child’s cultural background
  • If any domestic violence has occurred, the effect of an abuser’s actions on the child
  • Whether the child or a sibling of the child has been abused or neglected
  • Whether a party has satisfactorily completed a parenting education program

As your attorneys, we are your advocates. It is our task is to bring to the court’s attention all pertinent facts that support your goals for your child and to argue persuasively that your proposed custody plan advances the best interests of your child.

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If you are embroiled in a child custody dispute in Fairfield County, Needle | Cuda is ready to help. We provide highly responsive service and effective representation focused on positive results. To reserve a consultation, call us today at 203-429-4151 or contact our Westport office online.

Child custody is a legal term that signifies the rights that each parent or one parent may have in regards to the guardianship of their children or child.

Generally, there are two (2) types of child custody:

Physical Child Custody

Legal Child Custody

By law, child custody arrangements are determined based on what is deemed to be in the best interests of the child.

Connecticut Family Court Judges must consider a broad range of statutory factors when determining what is in a child’s best interests and their formulation of the related custody orders. Judges have an enormous amount of discretion in weighing and balancing statutory factors when forming their court orders, which sixteen (16) factors include:

(1) The temperament and developmental needs of the child;

(2) the capacity and the disposition of the parents to understand and meet the needs of the child;

(3) any relevant and material information obtained from the child, including the informed preferences of the child;

(4) the wishes of the child’s parents as to custody;

(5) the past and current interaction and relationship of the child with each parent, the child’s siblings and any other person who may significantly affect the best interests of the child;

(6) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage such continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent as is appropriate, including compliance with any court orders;

(7) any manipulation by or coercive behavior of the parents in an effort to involve the child in the parents’ dispute;

(8) the ability of each parent to be actively involved in the life of the child;

(9) the child’s adjustment to his or her home, school and community environments;

(10) the length of time that the child has lived in a stable and satisfactory environment and the desirability of maintaining continuity in such environment, provided the court may consider favorably a parent who voluntarily leaves the child’s family home pendente lite in order to alleviate stress in the household;

(11) the stability of the child’s existing or proposed residences, or both;

(12) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved, except that a disability of a proposed custodial parent or other party, in and of itself, shall not be determinative of custody unless the proposed custodial arrangement is not in the best interests of the child;

(13) the child’s cultural background;

(14) the effect on the child of the actions of an abuser, if any domestic violence has occurred between the parents or between a parent and another individual or the child;

(15) whether the child or a sibling of the child has been abused or neglected; and

(16) whether the party satisfactorily completed participation in a parenting education program.
Family Court Judges tend to favor orders that allow both parents to co-parent, and both actively participate, but this does not always mean equally.
Parents can negotiate and enter into child custody arrangements and parenting plans by agreement. In most cases, far better results are achieved by parents who manage to negotiate a child custody agreement/parenting plan through compromise than to go to trial and have a family judge decide.

Examples of serious custody or visitation violations that may rise to a level that a family judge deems are not in the best interest of the child:

  • Frequently missed visitation times or exchanges (chronic and/or harmful patterns);
  • Consistent tardiness or early arrivals (that create disruption to the child’s routine and normal function);
  • Persistent disturbances designed to intentionally disrupt your visitation and/or scheduled time;
  • Refusal to take the kids to the doctors, school, therapy, etc.;
  • Verbal or physical abuse of the child;
  • Alcohol or substance abuse around the child;
  • Keeping the child with you for a longer visit than what is provided for in the custody or visitation order;
  • Failure to inform the other parent of the child’s whereabouts;
  • Taking the child on a vacation or trip without prior approval;
  • Taking the child out of the state or out of the country without approval (can lead to federal and international issues);
  • Allowing an unauthorized person to care for the child;
  • Attempts to interfere with the relationship between the child and the other parent;

Physical Child Custody

Physical custody refers to where a child will primarily live and which parent will care for them on a daily basis.

Joint or shared custody is most common in which the child or children may spend time living with both parents, but on terms and/or a schedule that is not always equally divided.

Legal Child Custody

Legal custody refers to a parent’s decision making authority/rights with respect to their child.
These “major” decisions typically revolve around education, healthcare, religion, and general upbringing. Some examples of decisions a parent with legal custody will be able to make the decision if they want their child to attend public or private school; if they want their child to be vaccinated; or, if they want their child to be involved in a religious group, etc.

There are two types of legal custody arrangements in Connecticut:

Joint Custody

Sole Custody

Joint Custody / Shared Custody (described)

Joint child custody (a.k.a. “shared custody”) is the most common type of custody arrangement in Connecticut. This is when both parents share responsibilities for their child/children. This could mean both parents share responsibilities when it comes to physical custody–meaning a child goes back and forth between living with both parents; and/or the parents share legal custody–meaning the parents make joint decisions about their child/children with respect to things like healthcare, education, and religion.

Typically, when parents have joint physical custody they also have joint legal custody, however the inverse is not as consistently true, meaning–joint legal custody awards do not always correlate or align as directly with shared physical custody.

Sole Custody (described)

Sole legal custody is when one parent is awarded full responsibility for making all major parenting decisions about a child’s life and the other parent is allowed very minimal or no involvement. Sole physical and/or sole legal custody is generally awarded when one parent is deemed unfit typically for drug, financial, alcohol, or abuse issues. Courts are not fond of granting sole custody; Courts ideally want both parents to be involved in each child’s life. Even if sole legal custody is awarded to one parent, it is likely that the other parent will receive some sort of visitation rights. Demonstrating to a family law judge that sole custody will be in the best interests of a child is a very high bar to clear.

Disputes involving contested custody arrangements, visitation, and parenting plans that are part of a pending divorce action can take a long time to fully resolve in court — until final orders are issued by the court.

During the pendency of divorce actions, temporary orders are routinely issued family court judges as an interim step to ensure that sufficient structure, process, and rules are in place that protect the best interests of the child(ren).

Temporary custody orders are also useful in situations where one parent is unfit (for reasons such as substance abuse, sexual abuse, mental illness, and/or violence). If evidence can be presented that demonstrates your child’s safety or well-being is in jeopardy, then pursuing a temporary custody order is an appropriate course of action to protect the best interests of your child.

If or when DCF gets involved in your case and believes your child is in danger and neglected, they too can ask the court for permission to remove your child from your or a parent’s custody. Often, DCF will ask for temporary custody. A judge will decide whether to give DCF permission to keep your child until there is a hearing.

A temporary custody order is a legal decision by the court to award physical and legal custody of a minor child to an adult who may or may not be the child’s legal parent for a set period of time. Temporary custody orders do not turn final and are only temporary. These may be ordered by the court pendent lite (during the case), or following a granting of an ex parte application (until the hearing on the ex parte application is heard).

Temporary custody orders do not become final orders without a new order from a judge. However, once a temporary custody order is put in place, it lasts until a date stated in the order, or until a judge makes a new custody ruling.

Once a Temporary Custody Order is put in place, it lasts until a date stated in the order, or until a judge makes a new custody ruling.

Yes, a custody order (whether Temporary or relating to a prior judgement) may be modified upon a finding of a “material change in circumstances” and that the orders no longer serve in the best interest of the child or children.

Every situation is unique, but examples of situations that may support a successful application for a Modification of Child Custody are:

  • One parent is attempting to alienate the child from the other parent;
  • The child and/or a parent is facing physical abuse;
  • The child and/or a parent is facing mental and or physical health issues;
  • The health and/or safety of the child is compromised in any way;

If the facts of your situation meet the standard of a “material change in circumstances” with respect to your child custody matter, you may decide to file a Motion for Modification. A hearing is then scheduled, the matter is heard, evidence is presented, and a family law judge takes the motion under consideration and issues revised orders.

Upon a finding of a “material change in circumstances” warranting a modification, the judge uses the same standard when deciding the motion to modify as was used in the original determination of your custody orders: “what is the best interest of the child” for your Motion to Modify.

Yes, Police can enforce Child Custody Orders, but are reluctant to do so.  Generally, police officers avoid getting involved in family matters unless the custody or visitation violation rises to the level of a crime like child abuse, abduction, or kidnapping.  What happens when you call the police will vary greatly from town to town and which officers show up at your house.

When it comes to the health and safety of your kids, you should always trust your instincts. If by way of example, you have legitimate concerns for their well-being in the care of the other parent based on some prior knowledge or statement, you should call the police.

If your child or children are in immediate danger, CALL 911.

Depending on the situation, the officer may simply direct you back to court, but if you end up in front of a judge, you will at least have the police report as evidence to help support your case.

An emergency ex parte application for custody is an application that is filed with the court asking for an order to be issued without a full-hearing on the issue, based only on the representations included in an affidavit attached to the application. It is only used in extreme situations when imminent physical or psychological danger threatens the physical and/or emotional safety and welfare of a child or children. If the judge issues an emergency ex parte order based on the application, the judge will schedule a hearing where both parties have the opportunity to appear within 14 days and the other party must be served at least 5 days before that hearing.

Even if the application is denied, the judge will enter a hearing date for the underlying allegations and claims for relief sought in the ex parte application.

Emergency ex parte applications for custody can be filed in emergency situations when an immediate and present risk of physical danger or psychological harm to the child or children exists.

Produce tangible evidence that demonstrates that your child or children are in immediate, imminent physical and/or psychological harm that threatens their safety or well being.

Once a temporary custody order is put in place, it lasts until a date stated in the order, or until a judge makes a new custody ruling.

With respect to parents, both the mother and the father of a child have a legal right to seek custody of the child and/or visitation time with the child or children in Connecticut. When a child custody case begins both the mother and the father are treated equally and have equal rights.

More broadly, anyone who was involved in the child’s life can petition the court for visitation rights in Connecticut. So, technically speaking someone like a stepparent or aunt could petition for visitation rights because the court recognizes they might have had a significant relationship with the child. Typically, this is extremely difficult task as the court will want to see evidence and a relationship history that demonstrates the following:

  • A parent-like relationship has been established and maintained over time with the third party and child.
  • Denial of visitation to this third party would cause the child real and significant harm.

Yes, grandparents can petition the courts for visitation rights just as any third party. Connecticut courts will use the same standard of the child’s best interest to determine if the grandparents should have visitation rights. In order to be awarded visitation, the grandparents must also convey to the court that they have a parent like relationship with the child and that depriving them of visitation rights would significantly affect the child.

A child custody agreement that has been approved by a Connecticut family law judge and entered as an order of the court is legally binding on the parties involved.

If a parent violates a court-ordered or agreed-upon parenting plan, they run the risk of being held in contempt of court upon a finding of a willful violation of a clear court order. The parent who violates the order can face serious consequences. Always remember, the Court’s primary directive is to determine and protect the best interests of the child.

With all that said, there are three ways to deal with and pursue enforce a Child Custody or Visitation Order:

COMPROMISE AND COMMON SENSE (negotiation with the help of a skilled family lawyer and perhaps some form of limited scope mediation or similar negotiation process);

POLICE INTERVENTION;

MOTION TO ENFORCE / MOTION FOR CONTEMPT (which seeks to enforce the order and/or hold the other parent in contempt of court for violating the court order);

Document and Gather Evidence of Violations

Keep a written record of all violations in a calendar or journal. Include dates, times, and detailed descriptions of each problem, event, problematic interaction. Timestamped social media posts, pictures, and texts can also be helpful. Keep copies of any police reports or other papers, including copies of emails and/or phone records.

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